It really is. Especially when you have a great time! The immediate benefits are obvious: change of pace and scenery, someone else (if you're lucky) does the cooking, the chance to meet any number of interesting people, the challenges of dealing with another culture, and hopefully, a new way of seeing the world - at least for the length of your stay. And, if you're really fortunate, you may get a new perspective on the life you've left behind. An old saying in our family is "A change is as good as a rest." Then again, I suppose it depends on the changes.
For me, traveling to the United Kingdom last month did not challenge me as much as going to a county where I have no history and no knowledge of the language. However, it was wonderful simply to get away from my life for a while. First, in England, I stayed with some cousins for about 5 days whom I hadn't seen in 14 years. My second week was spent in Ireland. The weather in England was perfectly lovely with one day of rain (which gave me a chance to recover from jet lag). In Ireland, it rained. A LOT! That's why it's so green. The weather was also deliciously cool, which viewed now from the perspective of the hottest summer on record, made it even more lovely in retrospect. I am a child of more temperate climes, specifically the U.K. and the Pacific Northwest of the U.S. I am not in any way, shape or form structured for very hot and humid climates .... or icy, windblown frozen tundras, either, for that matter!
It may not have changed the world, but my trip last month was immensely satisfying. My cousins are extraordinarily generous hosts, especially when one takes into account that their kitchen was completely torn up - so meals were created in the downstairs hallway on a two-burner propane stove. microwave and a refrigerator that dominated the proceedings - along with a breakfront which provided the dishes. Funnily enough, even the drawers on the breakfront were being refurbished every other day, so we'd have to hunt for where we'd put the utensils or the tea.
My hosts are quite extraordinary. They did everything in their power to ensure that my 5 and one-half days with them were fun, fascinating and interesting. They deserve an award for meeting the challenge of entertaining a guest whilst their downstairs was compromised. In fact, most of my vivid memories from the few times I've visited England, usually revolve around these cousins, and the excursions they planned for me. John is a retired lawyer with a passion for family genealogy. Sue restored works of art, especially paintings; her knowledge is encyclopedic and her enthusiasm for new experiences unbound. You would be hard-pressed to find a better guide to the National Gallery (or any gallery, I would bet). Both Sue and John love to travel, explore and try new things. I suspect that without their strong sense of duty and their love for their family (who've all left the nest) - not to mention their grandchildren! - they'd love nothing more than to hit the road, and not look back.
'Course their geographical location helped a great deal. They live in the country town of Marlborough, Wiltshire - smack dab in the middle of Salisbury Plain in the middle of England's countryside. The significance? Oh, just a few old places like Stonehenge, Silbury Hill, Kennet Long Barrow and Avebury are found on the Salisbury Plain. Not to mention lovely country walks, a canal system, the White Horses, Salisbury Cathedral and stunning vistas that stretch the eye for miles. (Thanks for the expression, John.)
Not too far away in one direction, is Jane Austen's City of Bath which was built over a number of hills in a golden stone. This is a beautiful sight from the right viewpoint. Sue even managed to squeeze in a day trip to London for me. This included a trip down the Thames to Greenwich passing the London "Eye" and the Tower of London - where we were saluted with a 57-gun salute in honor of each year the Queen has been on the throne! Afterwards, we did a quick turn around the National Gallery. Our highlight was to see a man walk by in a black suit while wearing a bowler hat! Bowler hats are NOT seen these days. They are considered part of London's past. Not to mention seeing a black suit in high summer. Very cool. And, yes, Sue. Definitely surreal.
Now - Throw in a Russian Orthodox Men's Choir performance; a picnic dinner out on the Gallops by the side of the old coach road to Swindon while the sun went down; intelligent and perceptive conversation; climbing Martin's Sel (sp?) with Ramage, and seeing an old prop plane flying over the checkerboard of fields looking like something from the last century; climbing the steps of St. Peter's church tower to the top, and viewing Marlborough from above; shooting through Paddington Station after navigating the Underground; breathing that sweet country air; bombing through the tiny country lanes by car; trying to identify my pence from cents; the lovely enclosed gardens; leaning up against the stones at Avebury; having the executive tour of The Merchant's House; and finally, looking down and across a field to see Stonehenge looking majestic and inimitably itself!
Yes. It is truly amazing what you can do in five and one half days. My cousins have definitely set the bar incredibly high for any future hosts. And I am extremely grateful for all the wonderful experiences and memories they have gifted me.
So, I highly recommend your getting away from your life for a wee while. It can really refresh one's soul.